(((( safe exotic hugs to you! ))))

Please let me be frank with you as I know by reading your replies to others that you do appriciate it... ok.. here it goes....

The reason you have such a hard time "accept is that I was so naive and stupid.." is because it is a LIE. YOU KNOW IT GIRL !!!!

Oh yes. You do. You are in no way, shape, form, or in any parallel universe "naive" OR "stupid" ... And THAT is the truth - bottom line.

And you are smart enough to know it so you can not accept it! That simple.

I am so sorry you were used in this way. We TRUST te relationship with T. We HAVE to do so. That is why we go to a T. We PAY them to be worthy of our trust and to not cause us any harm. It is the same thing as any other medical procedure. We go to a doctor thinking they will either cure what ills us - or they will refer us on to someone who can. NEVER does a person go into a doctor thinking or feeling that they need to "watch out!" because the doctor might just be trying to pull a fast one. If our society worked that way, we would all be in for some serious trouble.

You should not have had to been on the guard against T !!
That is what makes this crime against you one of the very worst.

More safe hugs sister!


oh and as just a sibebar: I don't care WHAT a client could EVER do .... not even if it were to go perch naked on a T's desk and demand to be taken right then and there! NOTHING EVER gives the T an excuse to abuse a client! EVER! There is no action or words or "suggestions" or anything else that makes that "right" in any manner - EVER.