I know I responded before but I think I'm starting to REALLY see those things in my own bf now. I'm just now noticing it though. Tell me if this sounds like him:

I wrote "I heart you" on his car in the snow and I got told that I was making "microscratches" with my fingers in the pain.

We went to a basketball game today and, even though we were up by 13, he was still saying "well we probably wont hold onto it" or getting upset when we were only up by 9!

Just things like that. I'm starting to get pretty sick of it too. Let me know if you find something that works cause I think we could both use a solution here.