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Old Feb 13, 2010, 07:00 PM
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I am thinking and thinking if my current T is reminiscent of my pdoc. I dont know. Im tyring to find a connection. Whcih way could it be reminiscent? They dont really act alike, or maybe they do? I felt so mothered by pdoc, but not by ftt. I dont feel mothered by her (which is why I dont feel obsessed, Im sure of it now). They dont look alike.
Maybe how you feel when you are with her is similar. Safe? Able to share? Trust? I think for me the link was 1) they were both male and 2) the act of sitting in the room alone with him, talking about myself. This was not something I had experienced since that early age. The two men are really not much alike at all, but the similarity was in how I felt.
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