hello everyone! My boyfriend and I are going on 2 and a half years. I feel that we are terrible at communicationg with one another and i believe that is what causes our fights that we have...for example if i tell him something that is bothering me about what he is doing he begins to get extremely defensive and then it begins hard to express my feelings to him. I love him very much but there are times i cannot talk to him about what i need to..