Well, my wife decided to stay and see what the therapist has to say about my problems! so that's a great sign! she didn't just bail out immediately! i'm positively thrilled! may actually have a chance to fix myself, our marriage, and possibly get everything looking up for a change! it's been a really rough day after talking with her about the conditions of her staying, the things i have to work on before i get to the therapist, her saying that depending what the therapist says will be the final decision maker, etc. but! i'm still looking up right now