unfortunately at this point i'm not in a position to have any conditions set for her... she has a very close male friend who i am not comfortable with her spending as much time with as she does, however i am able to tolerate that while i work on myself... i guess everyone needs someone to talk to and she says that she just doesn't feel like she can talk to me about some things. i'm hoping things work out and i'm hoping they start to look up, but her being home again is the first major step