heh i love my wife, and her boyfriend is one of my best friends... just kills me that i can't be the one she comes to with her problems and she feels like she can't trust me since i told her about my problems... so no matter what happens i hope she's happy...that's all i've wanted for her, but unfortunately she doesn't see that and thanks to what ever it is i have i can't be there for her all the time (she says it's like talking to different people all the time and that she knows nothing about me even though we've been together 6 years, and to be honest, i can't remember a lot of conversations we've had or things we've done together) so i'm going for help for that and hopefully it will help our relationship too