No you didn't offend me. I pretty much have made up my mind. Sadly, I feel like, if I give an ultimatum that I know wont happen, its an easy way out. Which is bad, I know. I probably sound like a jerk saying that. But I feel like we can't break up right now simply because we live together and he is not the type that would make it easy on me to be roommates who aren't dating. So I feel like if I say April, when April comes I know he wont be different so it will be time to go anyways. That's absolutely horrible. God, now I feel horrible for actually admitting that I know we're not right together. I just can't find a way for it to end civilly. I'm on good terms with pretty much all my exes because it has been mutual but I really don't see him doing that. I see him sending me on a huge guilt trip. Ugh.