Similar situation. My ED has gone full speed ahead over the past month and a half because my best friend basically ended our friendship because I wished her boyfriend a Merry Christmas. It's been unbearable for me. I just try to fill my space and control everything. I have lost faith in relationships even more than I had before. She was teh one person I thought I could count on no matter what, but she ended up being just another person ready to bolt ... and after 11 years of being best friends. I was with her through so much and she discarded me like a pair of old shoes she dog chewed up. It has made me long for control and it's showing ... in my eating or lack there of.

I'm sorry you have the unfortunate situation of having this in common with me. I hope it gets better ... for both our sakes.