Well I told him it would be much easier to deal with if he ever did things to show me he cared. I was like its a simple as leaving a greeting card or a little note saying I love you for me to see later. I do that stuff for him all the time. He has a little notebook to record his workouts and I put little notes in there for him to find all the time. Or if I came home to dinner already made with some candles, or drawing me a bath or anything. I have told him those things several times but he never does them. And when I tell him I'm pretty much done with him I don't really see any emotion. He did actually cry last night for the first time in front of me.

But then today someone pulled out in front of him and he sped up real fast on the guy's rear end which is just aggressive and unnecessary. Those are the kind of things I'm talking about. Just overall aggressive behavior. I would like to see him fight for me and make me feel like he cares if I leave but he is so closed off it feels like it wouldn't matter. It would be much easier to deal with him overreacting if he did things like what I mentioned to make me feel special.