Ok clarification seems to be needed lol... She's my wife, we separated for about a week following her and one of my very close friends becoming emotionally involved. I was alright with them becoming friends and encouraged it. I am good friends with him and his wife as well. At some point they decided to become "Friends with benefits". At the time I had no issue with that, the sex part did not bother me or his wife at all. (Her and I both have pretty wild pasts in that respect and neither of our spouses do. We understood their desire for some variety... so we were fine with it...and his wife is still fine with it). They become very emotionally close... that part bothered me a lot. She went from being seemingly happy in our relationship, never having any real issues other than the occasional take out the trash, do the dishes type of issues. Then suddenly she had all these issues with me because I'm not a romantic individual by any stretch of the imagination... I hope that cleared things up... (Yes, I'm fully aware it's a very confusing situation)