These are just MY feelings, ok? I own the problem. It's MINE. This isn't meant to start arguments or discention and I'm aware that it's an option provided by Doc John, with good reason, I suppose. It makes some people comfortable or feel safer; why, I don't understand. But what gets ME is to check to see which of my friends are online and find Annonymous members CHECKING to see who's online!! Makes me feel SPIED ON!