... is getting out of prison. He called us about a week ago. (He actually called twice, I hung up on him the first time.) And, of course, he needed a place to stay, then actually had the audacity to ask if he could work for me. I declined...

It's bothering my wife, and she doesn't need this with the stress of the new baby and my mood swings on top of it. He was very abusive, physically and emotionally. When I met her, she was emotionally traumatized, to say the least. While he was in prison, her self-esteem returned. But her behavior is starting to revert back to its old self now that he's contacting her again. I'm doing my best to help her, but she won't admit that anything's wrong.

By the way, he was in prison for assault and possession of narcotics.