((((belle)))) you still have many, many years to have kids. you know, i wonder if their relationship had really started while you were still with him. i hate to suggest that but i think it might be possible. either way, i think you can do a lot better than this guy. he sounds rather immature. i would bet money that in a few years you will be so thankful that you didn't marry him because you've met someone much better for you.