I, too, fear that your concerns may be justfied, by the unkept promises, the inability to stop after a few, the risks with the child, the drunk driving, the personality changes, etc. One final question. Do you have any reason to believe that he has relatively little memory of his behaviors from "the night before"? Such blackouts pretty much cinch the question, but I think you have already done that. However, if he keeps this promise, he keeps it. My best wishes from the heart. Do contact Alynon. You will get most valuable info and support there. AA, listed in the phone book, will be able to direct you to Alynon. Or you may find meeting times in the local paper. Oh, and about my signature. You can forgive your husband withOUT letting me back in your life if he is endangering your children.