Byz posted an article from the Mayo clinic about learning to be more assertive instead of aggressive and I sent it to him in an email and he read it. And yesterday he bought me flowers and apologized again and took me out to sushi. I gave him this book called The Road Less Traveled that talks about personality disorders and how to overcome them and learning to have more empathy etc... and asked him to read it.

He is going out of town on Thursday and wont be back until Sunday night which will give me some time to myself to really weigh the pros and cons of our relationship. I seriously need to make a table with each thing written down or else I wont be able to keep all my thoughts together.