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Originally Posted by Typo
It makes me angry, in the aspect of I can't have a normal relationship, that in turn what abuser did to me, affects the people around me and my interactions with them.
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Life and relationships are not perfect static things. Life and relationships just are what they are in all their imperfections.
I actually looked forward to my relationships bringing up issues that I needed to work on. I would really get excited and take the issue to therapy so that I could work on it and make it better. You can't work on issues that you aren't aware of. You can't have a totally different life (at least not until you have worked on it). You have what you have and working on what you have isn't so bad..........