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Old Feb 16, 2010, 12:52 PM
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It makes me angry, in the aspect of I can't have a normal relationship, that in turn what abuser did to me, affects the people around me and my interactions with them.
Life and relationships are not perfect static things. Life and relationships just are what they are in all their imperfections.

I actually looked forward to my relationships bringing up issues that I needed to work on. I would really get excited and take the issue to therapy so that I could work on it and make it better. You can't work on issues that you aren't aware of. You can't have a totally different life (at least not until you have worked on it). You have what you have and working on what you have isn't so bad..........
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Thanks for this!
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