Good Grief Jen, as far as I can see you did everything by the book. A psychologist would probably have made exactly the same decisions as you did.

It's rotten luck that Kimmy has this illness, and it must add to your stresses.

However, I think it's time for a chorus of the time honoured affirmation - "It's not your fault."

You have quite a transition going on at the moment, but it will settle down soon, I'm sure.

Good luck, M