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Valis said:
I hate lying to myself, saying everything will be fine

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Hi Valis,

You're right about this. I have worked hard to accept things as they are rather than living in hope.

Maybe it's unrealistic to say 'everything willl be fine' I prefer to say ' I have an illness and I am going to survive it and make the best of what I have and what good times I do get'.

There is no lying at all in that position.

Hope it lightens for you,

M