Thank you Bill, I understand what you are saying. She has held a grudge against me in the past, which caused me a lot of pain. Yes my sister does have a temper and you described that so well. But I know my son is so much more important. I know I'm going to have to choose sooner or later. She's just as hard to stand up to as my father and grandmother are. They're very intimidating. There are several times I should have said something to her, but was too scared to. I mean, I couldn't even open my mouth. But I do have to protect my son. The best way I have done so so far was to hide, keep him away from those kinds of people, or one time by calling the police. I have to find the courage and be strong myself.