sweetie? you're posting on a public Internet board and your'e feeling spied on? hmmmmmm
sorry you feel that way but respect those as your feelings and perceptions about this place.
personally? we'd say a mixture of pet peeve and insecurity to the question posed in the subject line.
funny how this comes up again and again in different forms from different members. good post as it shows how this community and its people grow and change over time.