I don't know what to tell you about your response! You want to have sex but can't! It seems terrible, but something I experience because of medications I take. Ugh! And you are probably not on medications though you didn't answer my questions about the anti-depressant. Therapy, internet research are the answers here. There could very well be a forum on the internet with women in your situation, I wouldn't be surprised! Maybe they have some secret hormone, herbal treatment, or something that would help. I don't know.