Is the abuser still alive? Write him a letter of "restorative justice"---Restorative justice says: This is what you did; this is how it made me feel. It doesnt' matter what the abuser thinks, says or does....ONLY YOUR feelings matter.

I think it is very self-empowering. As children we were not allowed to have boundaries, but as adults there are ways to take our power back. You may want to discuss this with your t......

Anger is a good sign.....it is telling you there is something that needs t be addressed, etc......

Hugs, Sharon