You know that your husband can kill himself, your children and other people on the road when he drinks and drives. He is a danger to himself and others. I agree that keeping your children safe is priority number one. He could have gotten arrested for child engangerment...believe me, it is also a felony if convicted. Al Anon would be good for you. I am sorry about all the promises that he has broken. One question though...when you put his stuff on the lawn...how'd he get back in?