I seldom log in. So most of the time I will be seen as an "invisible member" or "anonymous". I'm harmless tho. I read a lot here, looking for things I can relate to and maybe find some answers to whatever my problem might be at the time. I used to be a lot more out going and would jump right in and would always be giving of myself. Many people have said to me, 'you had to of been a cheerleader in school' as I was always cheerful and helpful. I guess i have changed and being quiet and watchful is what fits me now. I get a lot more out of things when I stand back and don't get caught up in the chatter of things....So one of those "invisible members or anonymous is prob me.....