I do not know 'bout you, but I NEUER would have treated my woman like this. Like the heart on the car, screw the paint I would have taken a picture of it and had it as my wallpaper on my phone. Than I would have made her hot cocoa and run her a bubble bath. Verbal abuse is for monsters who do not deserve sweet gestures. Cuddling and talking and listening to your woman is so much better than cutting them off as their self esteem slowly erodes. Being there when your woman is sad or cries. If my woman cries, I taste salt. I give my 2 ears to her. To listen, to let I know she is heard. When she is sick I go into double time to pick up the slack until she is well again. It is my job as her partner not only be by her side but to do my part to see that she stays there willingly by mine. What about you notz? What's your take on this?