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Originally Posted by ldm120206
ok...mine just told me last night that we will not celebrate valentine's day to save money....we had a long talk yesterday....he seems to think that the majority of our problems are my fault....just last week he told me that we are broken...he is not happy and not sure if we can be fixed.....i have run around for the past week...being someone that i am not...just trying to make him happy....last thing i want to do is break up.....for a minute...i did blame myself...FOR EVERYTHING !!!!!...he has become more distant....completely unemotional since our move here....I realize now...it is not all my fault.....i really believe he just wants someone....or something different.....he says...at one time he was so sure we had a future together....now he is not so sure.......  |
Idm.... I just wanted to say I am sorry that things are going this way...how long have you been together? Do you have any children together? I only ask because sometimes relationships are worth fighting for as long as there is no abuse involved.
Since you say you don't want this ,what about counceling. And yes sadly we do grow apart and sometimes we have to look at life as a learning experience. I do hope things go your way and you are in my prayers.
Peace