It is great you are getting help with this. We can't tell you whether your marriage is worth saving or not but I do believe that all married people feel trapped and unsure at some time or another. And we all have times when we are snippy and being in pain and facing a ruined car can really do it and it doesn't mean we don't love those we are snippy to. In fact, we are usually snippier to those we love the most, right? Hopefully you and your doc can work through what your real feelings are so you can make logical decisions about your life. But it sounds like you were doing really great just before that. I hope you get there again soon!