Hippyman - most men who engage in this activity are content and don't want to get over this. If it's not affecting your life negatively then you don't have to think of it as 'something to get over'. The only problem is, it would be hard to find a woman that doesn't mind this - although there probably are some. You would just need to be discreet I guess. I think it becomes problematic when you're forced to become secretive. Best of luck to you.