I hear your pain, sorrow and frustration Sj ! I have a hard time looking at the news and devastation from Katrina. So sad ! As for that preacher - he is not speaking the truth, so please dont let that garbage he is spewing get to you........and I agree - he needs to go to Iraq ! Please keep focusing on YOU, and your healing process........perhaps watching the news isnt a good idea right now. I know many people who have their T's recommend staying clear of it, when things are so bad , and when u are working on your own stuff. Just a thought !