Gracey, Keep in mind that you are there with your kids, and they need you! You are doing fine!! It is the person who wrote the email who is not thinking right. Whatever you have been through already is enough! Talk to your therapist, show them the email, and then try real hard to let it go!! Write a couple of lines or a couple of pages about it, and then have a ceremony and burn the paper! We are all here for you, and you just hug your kids sweet little cheeks, and give them all the love they need. Turn your back on the bad times and let those other crazy fools worry about it. You have little people to love and raise. Good Luck!! I am thinking about you!!