Thread: I went off
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Old Feb 19, 2010, 10:12 AM
laura2 laura2 is offline
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Originally Posted by michele#3 View Post
Sky, I'm not sure making friends with her is an option. That's because one minute she's friendly and apologetic for her behaviour and the next she mean and abusive. I know this because about a year ago she hugged me and apologized to me for her actions and then a few days later she started up again with her outrageous behaviour.
And a restraining order they cost money as you said. And that I don't have. I guess the best thing I can do is to try to avoid her and like you say not take it personally when she goes off.
amante is right, she is a bully, they come in so many different forms, her mental health should not excuse her, you should not have to worry about bumping into her, & never knowing which way she may go, well done for standing up to her, she will know she's over stepped the mark, keep that line drawn, if she crosses it again hold your nerve, you shouldnt have to put up with that, i've been in situations where my reaction has surprised or frightened me, but my T always said, this is no surprise when you are under any sort of threat, you have to look after yourself.
Thanks for this!
AShadow721