Thread: It must be me
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Old Aug 31, 2005, 01:25 PM
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Dearest Fuzzy,

The abused are not at fault. Never. It is not your fault you were abused. Abusers usually lay the blame on anyone but themselves. Sometimes even abused people lay the blame on anyone other than the abusers because it's scary to accuse someone who has such power with anything.

Don't let this false self accusation get to you. It's not you. You didn't do it.

Hugs,

Jan
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