Y'know...at first I didn't like this guy. Then I did. Now I don't again.

You were going to move your education to be with him but he can't do the same for you. Personally, it sounds like he is controlling and doesn't really care one way or another what you do. It's all about him. He's a big boy! He can drive a couple hours to see you.

I'm sorry but this would be a breaker for me. He isn't "comfortable" with you going to school away from him? You're not 12. You can take care of yourself. And if it comes down to him not trusting you, well then that's not good either. You should NEVER sacrifice your happiness and education for a man! Especially when he doesn't even care about it. All he cares about is himself, where he goes and that you follow him where he goes. I would end this thing now.

And what problems are you working on that are all on you? You are being way too hard on yourself and way too accommodating to a guy who wont even introduce you to his parents after 2 years.

I'm sorry but this guy sounds like a dud to me. I would seriously consider going separate ways because you don't sound happy at all. Sounds like a one way street with this guy.