Bonaire......... I agree with you.... Drugs should not be the t's first option........I personally think his "life style" which lacks exercise and maybe not the healthiest diet.. Actually we talked a little about his life style.. He does drink... Once a week I guess, maybe two times a week... I think he drinks way too much...And he does not exercise. He is 29 .. he needs to take better care of himself....

Far cry from the days when he faithfully went the gym and ate healthy...Part of my concern is that we do not find a T that pushes drugs.. Trust is another issue..

Thanks for you suggestions...