So here it is....Been with my wife for 16yrs.She has bi-polar.Overall, we have had a very loving relationship. 2wks before Christmas she moved out & moved in with another man like it was natural & took our 6yr old daughter w/her.Found out she stopped taking her meds completely over the summer. We have had some financial hardships & I think that's what triggered it too.The guy she moved in with is rich & he's giving her ANYTHING she wants.She basically has me almost bankrupt so I cannot even afford to get a lawyer to try & get my daughter.She says she's going to divorce me even though she swears she's madly in love with me, but she HAS to do it.She is blaming me for everything.As much as I want to wash my hands of her I know she's sick,but with him keeping her up,it could be a long long time before she crashes. She has no relationship with her family,so I've been the ONLY stable thing in her life,which is why I think she keeps coming around. Found out too their doing cocaine too,how much I have no idea. I'm pretty much at wits end.Any suggestions or am I wasting my time? Thank you all for any advice or suggestions, LH