I agree with Saluki. Don't let this guy push you around. This is your education, your career, your life. Don't let him be the boss of it.

Why hasn't he introduced you to his parents after two years? Why doesn't he want them to know about calling your or visiting you? Two hours is not that far and is very do-able. I'm currently 2 and a half hours from my boyfriend. He fully supports my desire to get an education and encourages me to do well and praises me for my hard work. He makes a point of coming to see me on weekends when he has time.

Do not let him blame you or make you feel guilty about trying to go to school. Don't let him twist your arm about being two hours away, convincing you to do an online program. He sounds like he is trying to manipulate the situation to his favor and in away, seems to be isolating you as well.

Please take care of yourself. Don't let him try to tell you what is best for you. You're smart, you can do this, even on your own if need be!