hi there sykee and welcome!
well, i think to find out who you are would require you to get back into therapy on a weekly basis for quite a while. i'm going thru the process right now. i go every week for two hours...only then did the process begin. i'm learning so much.
why is it that you came to see t only when needed? just curious.
it's good to meet you. have a good evening.
kd