i understand your feelings. i really do. i've been in the same position. since this is your daughter's last camp day, please consider how much she wants you to be there. your presence, for her, will be far more powerful than what others think. ultimately, what matters is your relationship with her. if you can grit your teeth and do it, years from now, that's what you and she will remember. that you could go........xoxoxoxo pat