Well I think to put it one way, do you think you know better what the overall plan is for this world than God does? Are you better to deside things better than God? I guess it comes do3wn to just how you really feel about it yourself. it does not matter what others think or feel, this is your life and things are not the same for all of us. Each of us have our own way of wanting things done and how we want thingsw done. If it still works, don't fix it then.

Allan