AShadow you shouldn't have to put up with this, not you, or your son, or your mom, does he have to come back?, why should you allow him back?, you cant live hiding in your room, that's no life, you have suffered enough, i understand you looking into where ever could supply you housing, i think that's better than putting up with this any longer, but why should you, why should you & your son uproot?, i know no matter how bad the people closest to us can hurt us, they always have a way of getting round us, its not your fault, you do not owe him anything, can you put yourself first & make a stand?, if not for you, your son.