Sorry no one was around earlier. Sometimes the time difference makes it that some are asleeep while others are posting.

I can understand your being angry with your aunt. Child abuse is very hard to comprehend. I think your aunt was probably in need of some help-- in the way of counseling.
It's very sad what your cousin has gone through-- I hope your family sees that he gets some counseling as I can imagine he is dealing with many confusing feelings and might not be handling it in the best manner.

Sounds like he has a cousin that really cares-- he's lucky to have you. My thoughts and hopes are with you and your family. You are welcome to PM me anytime.

mandy