Shadow, do you have a T you could talk to? You're probably feeling violated after the robbery and it would be helpful for you if you had someone to talk about it. We'll help you as much as we can so please keep posting.

Like 1dayatatime2, I think your reaction is normal and healthy and that you're handling all of this exceptionally well...(I would be in complete meltdown state). But it might be beneficial to talk to a T since you were held up at gunpoint....it might haunt you for a while and I would hate to see that happen for you.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((shadowdancer)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Hugs, Flutter