If you had matrnal care & love without the breats feeding you wouldn't have that yearning? Maternal care & love is not all about breast feeding & many times has nothing to do with it as many times that is impossible.

Just pointing out that a metaphore that covers all maternal care & love snuggling without breast feeding might be more realistic to all cases without creating the false view that maternal care & love comes only through breast feeding. It is important to focus on the lack of care & love you experiences & focus on that rather than on the breast feeding you are using to symbolize it....just a thought.