Good point Sunrise. Grief is definitely a situation that doesn't need to be resolved unless its complicated grief and there are issues which are inhibiting the grief process. Good point about using the word resolve. I guess I use the word resolve when my feelings are involved in a situation that needs to be resolved. So maybe it isnt' necessarily the feelings that need to be resolved but the situation? Especially when the feelings are old and you have to untangle them and figure out where they are coming from, then you are resolving too. Interesting point...........