I hate when I lose all I have written here... I am not bipolar. I have PTSD and Major Depression. But I did take an anti-depressant and anti-psychotic while I was pregnant. Usually, doctors only want you to take Category A's, which are like Tylenol. However, Category B's are usually considered okay to take when you are pregnant, but most doctors will only let you use them if you really need them. You can find out what category your prescriptions are at this website http://www.drugguide.com/ddo/ub. Your prescriptions can always be changed to a Category B if you become pregnant. Or even before you do, so you have a chance to get used to them and make sure they work.

It is different when you are planning a pregnancy though. So your doctor may have other opinions. In my situation, I had no choice and I needed medication. You don't want to go off your meds completely if you will be emotionally unstable without them. That can cause big problems. It could complicate your pregnancy, give you an increased risk for miscarriage, postpartum depression, and SIDS in your child. I also believe that negative emotions can also negatively impact your unborn child's view of the world.

Ultimately, I think it's your choice. Of course, you want to think of the child you are planning on having before anything. Do you believe you are emotionally stable enough to have a baby even with your bipolar? Do you feel you will be able to handle a toddler and a newborn all at once? If you think you are able, I don't see why you should let anything else get in your way of being happy. Of course, you should discuss it with your doctor. Maybe he/she will know what is right for you.