What I am saying is that it may be your perception of love, but there are many mothers who love their children & care for them who can't breast feed & that doesn't lessen the love for their children, not does is cause them problems later in life.....What I am saying is that the love & caring had to be missing it wasn't just the breast feeding. Babies don't even know if they were beast fead unless their mothers tell them or unless it's obvious because the mother dies or abandoned. them.

Maybe it causes a stir in some ways because it comes across sounding like love & caring only come from breast feeding & that is NOT the case.....even though it's your preception.....preceptions are in the mind.....but if your problem stems from lack of love & caring, that has nothing to do with breast feeding but lack of love & caring feelings in any way. You just need to know that the 2 are not necessarily tied together.......as a fact of many women's lives.

I know that lack of love & caring is a huge hurt that everyone has to work through who doesn't have it......& know that you will work through it. If that is the picture you need to work through it....that is one thing......but just wanted to make it clear that it isn't where the love & caring comes from (without bursting your picture)