Thank you WePow. Actually, my husband is in prison; my old friend is the one in the military. Sorry if that confused anyone. I can totally understand how confusing things you are reading can get if you're dissociating. Anyway, I usually get my stories all mixed up, chronological order wise, it can be confusing I'm sure.
Yes, my old friend who is in the army, just proposed to me a few weeks ago.
I really could not believe it seeing as I'm already married and it had been years since I actually talked to my old friend. I took it very offensively and told him no several times. He kept trying to negotiate it with me. But yes, IF my husband was the one in the military, we would be taken care of. I'm not sure if I wish it was that way or not, because I don't know how I would feel if my husband was in the army, or going to war, that would be scary too.
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