Being married 15 years w an teenager that I have brought up to tell the truth and see the truth. This includes my in laws of an divorced family. I chose to bring anyone that was an family member that wanted to play hurtful games on their niece (my daughter) only to have her beg them for their attention. I refuse this upbringing to be applied to my child too. I stated no matter who you give respect to the ones that earn respect.My in-laws feel I teach her the ugliest of the world.I teach both and they can't stand it. Could this be the reason that the mother in law is an psycho literally bad mouth about me to my past and future employment opportunities.? I had my husband catch her at her own game (trying to get info from her grand daughter) and lie about it to his face.He told her never to call our child again and the only thing she asked "was this my idea?"