Hi Scott, You seem educated and open to bp and thats great. I hate that your going through this in your relationship. Maybe I can give you some insight from the other side. I to am bp and my ex is in your shoes so to speak. He is also very open and understanding to my issues and willing to work with me and do whatever he can for me and to reassure me all will be good in our relationship. However, being that I am unmedicated and a lil messed up right now I choose to not be in the relationship. For me when it all gets messed up I pull back and shut people out of my life in hopes of simplifying it. If thats makes any sense. He is in my life as a friend for the moment till I can cope or work out in my head how to be back in a relationship. I just started back on meds and therapy so I hope this will work itself out at some point. Having my ex in my life and having his support is such a great comfort to me. Definately incourage your gf to get meds adjusted if needed and get into therapy and try to be supportive for her in whatever aspect you can and maybe yall can work through this. Good luck to you.